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WELCOME
I’m a new mom surviving on coffee, cuddles, and chaos—with a heart full of love and a head full of questions. Picture this: a 5-month-old boss baby, a Cane corso mixed pup, the best husband, and me—Googling my way through motherhood. Toronto is home now, but my family’s back in Vancouver, so this blog and podcast are my way of staying grounded, connected, and maybe even helping someone else feel a little less alone. Expect honest stories, messy moments, married life, and yes… probably too much talk about poop.
Our Story
Nottooshabi is my little digital living room — a space for women who are doing all the things: building a life, raising tiny humans, managing marriage, chasing goals, and somehow remembering to drink water.
I’m a first-time mom, an immigrant, a woman living far from family, and someone who believes in figuring things out as I go — and sharing the ride while I do. This isn’t a highlight reel; it’s a real-life collection of moments that are equal parts chaos, clarity, and comedy.
Whether it’s navigating motherhood, nurturing a relationship, or simply keeping your sense of self intact, this space is for you. Come for the stories, stay for the solidarity. We’re all in this together — even if we’re all making it up as we go.
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